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Its always amazing to start anew! The fun of life lies in rising from good to the better and better to the best. Improvement is the key. Being a newbie in this blogger's town I am trying my best to pen my thoughts down in the best way possible coz when it comes to imagination sky is the limit!

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DON'T UNDERESTIMATE THE 'MAN' IN A WO(MAN)..!

She fell from the heaven's brink and was born in the arms of the earth! she  produced the kids on this land. She is the mother of the chaps of this Universe. She is the daughter of the Lord. She is a woman! Yes a woman.
Again. And again. Yet again, the fight for females begin. Same issues have been raised previously, same problems crop up in present and God forbid, but same questions may blot the future.  A common query raised by women today is Why only we, the women are being targeted? I have an answer to this. Women are not being aimed at because they are “soft targets” but because they are possibly the ‘toughest targets’. Have you ever seen a person focusing on the floor? Nah. He always aims the moon and the stars, and quite evidently women are nowhere less than the moons and the stars! Is the dart ever aimed at the four corners of the board? No, it hits the center. Similarly men try to attack ‘SELF-RESPECT’ of a woman, which is the center of anyone’s life, the Respect! And , even after repeated attempts when they fail to do so they start denying. They rationalize their ‘Egoism’ by making statements like “ Women are meant to be a ‘bait’ and  we have our right on her.”  Such statements are made because they ‘Fear’ that if women are not pulled down, their Ego will be destroyed. They find it necessary to lock women indoors because they fear that if that ‘beautiful bird’ is left out ,it would fly to a level that’s hard for them to imagine!
Some men like to play blame games, while others love to take credit -“Women need Protection”. Let me ask to these men that have they forgotten the time when they hid under their ‘Mummy ka Pallu’? Have they forgotten those days when their Sister guided them through. Don’t they remember the times when their wives kept their ‘Name and Respect’ by cooking delicacies when their friends came home? Haven’t their daughters relived them from all day tiredness with her magical hug?  Then don’t you think men need ‘protection’?  Why are only ‘Chotte Kapde’ of a woman being questioned and why not ‘Chotti Soch’ of men?
Ever thought about a world without women? It can’t survive. Coz She is the rainbow of this world, spreading colors of love all around! She has the power to Fight Back! Rise up against the atrocities! A woman has the strength to sacrifice. She is not just a lady, she is a Wo(Man)!
Pardon me, if all this while I sounded like a female chauvinist, because I am not! A man in a woman’s life is as important as a woman in his life. A mother needs her son, a sister needs her brother, a wife needs her husband and a daughter needs her father.  Women respect men. They know that all men aren’t rapists. All men aren’t the same. Women like their company. Women loved to be loved! But the point is that women are ‘Independent’ enough to stand on their own feet but they are not ‘Free’ enough to roam in their own country.  Our fight isn’t for Independence but for “Freedom”.
Cheers to Woman Power!  Cheers for the male in a Fe(male), a man in a Wo(man)!

THE THREE MAGICAL WORDS...

While I glance at the glary atmosphere around and peep into those ‘four walls’ inside, my heart pumps LOVE! With every beat, it gets deeper and deeper. That red color blood transforms into a symbol of adoration creating an ambiance of internal peace and satisfaction. Emotions flood in. Love flows through the nerves…  I can feel it.

It’s a beautiful experience.  Love.  It’s everlasting. No feeling is as pure! Truly.

As I proceed, I realize that love is more than songs running in the background. Love is more than Duppattas flying in the air. Its more than that ‘titanic moment’ . More than the common PDAs, much more than the fragrance of roses. More than those proposals and promises. its above gifts. Its beyond expressions! It’s just there. It can’t be measured by the diamond rings you buy . It can’t be counted on the number of meetings you’ve had. It’s neither the proposal on knees nor the prince of my dreams on the horses. It’s more. A lot more. LOVE has no boundaries whatsoever. It’s not just restricted to Boyfriends and Girlfriends. It’s not stereotyped to be between the opposite sexes. No. love isn’t a contract between specifics! It’s a feeling. It can be felt for Anyone and Everyone.

Love in itself is precious:

Love is when your mother passes sleepless nights for you

Love is when your dad secretly puts the blanket on to you when cold

Love is when your brother hands over his first salary to you

Love is when your sister helps you in hiding your mischief

Love is when your grandparents raise their hands for blessings
Love is when your teacher laughs along with you on funny moments

Love is when your children plan cute and innocent surprises for you

Love is when your friend scolds you for forgetting his/her birthday

Love is when your wife runs to the door , coz she can recognize the sound of your footsteps

Love is when your husband fulfills your wishes before you say it

Love is when your  girlfriend cooks for you

Love is when your boyfriend eats it despite its taste without a complaint.

Love is when your age doesn’t fade your feelings.

Love is when you feel the person is within you, if not physically present.

Love is when you don’t hesitate to identify yourself with your partner , you be a gay or lesbian.

Love is when you kiss the mirror and fall in love with your self

Love is in Relationships bound by trust and understanding.

LOVE just cannot be calculated!

So feel the Love this Valentine Season. Just walk into the rooms of your loved ones and confess the amount of love you have for them.

Just verbalize your feelings through the Three Most Magical Words in the world: I LOVE YOU!!

THE CHANGE

It is extremely  astounding to witness  the uncanny changes taking place in today’s scenario due to the “technolicious”  augment

nowadays.

The other day I was scrolling the facebook posts when I suddenly came across something as weird as “my boyfriend broke my favorite shoe!” What was even more weird was the fact is that it got around 30 likes and 15 comments, all of them trying to figure out who that stupid guy was! Another bizarre thing was a click of the eyebrows  with a caption: “My first time threading job” ( I wonder if she was more interested in showing the pimples on her forehead!).  Boys are no less. I mean though  I have a very few guy friends online still I have ‘heard’ about those cheesy online proposals that are sent by random guys to random girls with pics of their new haircut entitled “This is for you baby” and the girl sending back an emoticons of hugs and kisses. Now that’s the height of stupidity! I was prodded to write this article after such observations!

Today, the techno-savvy world has ruptured all the boundaries  dumping us into an illogical space where we are unable to rationally analyze the pursuits of life. Undoubtedly technology is a great tool but only as long as it is not misused ,forget about misuse, till the time technology(particularly socially networking sites )are not nonsensically applied , its fine. But the day it starts capturing your life and persuades you to publicize your private moments just to seek some unnecessary attention of some unimportant people, you’ve had it!

I would like to admit that I myself post hundreds of posts and pictures quite often and I am an active ‘facebookian’ but at the same time I am far from those irritable stuff that fill fb walls like pics of huge eyes, lips, bums getting 200 likes! Posts like“I am eating sushi, I am drinking wine, I am listening , sleeping ,dying, crying, lying , faking etc. etc. etc. ( the last 2 are quite evident ). It has become as if, if you don’t post pictures or details online the event didn’t happen!( we currently saw some people clicking photos at the newly erected Ram Jhulla when  my dad asked: Is that their new profile pic. LOL !). If we continue like this, in no time we would reach a point where people would start posting : I am having a bath, combing my hair, searching my scarf or I am in the loo! Are events like relationships, heart-breaks, patch-ups so trivial that a post is enough to define it! I am sorry but I disagree. I mean sharing your joy and pain is a totally different issue but publicizing it to gain sympathy and attention? How is it justified? Do you think love of a person can be grasped through the number of likes and comments one gives you on a photo? I don’t think so. ( those irritating posts such as: HIT LIKE IF YOU LOVE YOUR MOTHER, COMMENT IF YOU HAVE FAITH IN GOD. Absolute nonsense!). And what about writing RIPs on the walls of the dead. What sense does it make? Do you think life is so insignificant that writing three words that to which are inaccessible to that person will suffice. I would choose to close my eyes and pray for the soul  for 30 seconds rather than posting an insensitive post which takes around 15 minutes without doing any good to the deceased.

Coming to the Whatssapians and Hike(ians) . Recently I went to the Gurudware where the prayer was on and beside me a lady was busy typing her whatsapp status :”Reciting Ardaas in Gurudware”, after seeing this I remembered one more incident a few weeks back when I visited a temple , inside which a girl was sitting texting to his boyfriend “ Sweet heart meet me in the temple”( I wonder if she was planning to marry!) I saw that because I was again sitting beside her! I can’t wait for the time when we would be sitting at home and sending whatsapp messages to God! (He soon needs to arrange a Wifi or else he’ll have to pay exceedingly high bills! And about Hike, well its stickers are enough. It amuses me as to how the Hike inventors came to know about our freak language usages, to make those awful stickers!( Great job :p) while those targetting status’ on such social networking sites seem to be the most convenient  way to retaliate for the insults in the past! ( extremely funny).

Reaching at the end point of this article I am keen to question the purpose of techno-social sites, it was definitely not to save our time, neither was it to help us get social( How many of you chat to unknown people online, hardly any.) But wait ,  I have got an answer. These sites are actually made to teach us the correct use of technology. It provides us a chance educate, alert, and reach out to a mass population , which could be beneficial for us in terms of voicing our opinions and sharing our views. Something like a e-movement could begin with the help of these sites when necessary Like popular(  TED talks, Aagaas Group, Yug Community etc.).  Ultimately everything has its pros and cons but the choice between them is ours! Surf Smart!

(This article is not  meant to offend somebody and it completely based on general observations.)