Tuesday 10 March 2015

DON'T UNDERESTIMATE THE 'MAN' IN A WO(MAN)..!


She fell from the heaven's brink and was born in the arms of the earth! she  produced the kids on this land. She is the mother of the chaps of this Universe. She is the daughter of the Lord. She is a woman! Yes a woman.
Again. And again. Yet again, the fight for females begin. Same issues have been raised previously, same problems crop up in present and God forbid, but same questions may blot the future.  A common query raised by women today is Why only we, the women are being targeted? I have an answer to this. Women are not being aimed at because they are “soft targets” but because they are possibly the ‘toughest targets’. Have you ever seen a person focusing on the floor? Nah. He always aims the moon and the stars, and quite evidently women are nowhere less than the moons and the stars! Is the dart ever aimed at the four corners of the board? No, it hits the center. Similarly men try to attack ‘SELF-RESPECT’ of a woman, which is the center of anyone’s life, the Respect! And , even after repeated attempts when they fail to do so they start denying. They rationalize their ‘Egoism’ by making statements like “ Women are meant to be a ‘bait’ and  we have our right on her.”  Such statements are made because they ‘Fear’ that if women are not pulled down, their Ego will be destroyed. They find it necessary to lock women indoors because they fear that if that ‘beautiful bird’ is left out ,it would fly to a level that’s hard for them to imagine!
Some men like to play blame games, while others love to take credit -“Women need Protection”. Let me ask to these men that have they forgotten the time when they hid under their ‘Mummy ka Pallu’? Have they forgotten those days when their Sister guided them through. Don’t they remember the times when their wives kept their ‘Name and Respect’ by cooking delicacies when their friends came home? Haven’t their daughters relived them from all day tiredness with her magical hug?  Then don’t you think men need ‘protection’?  Why are only ‘Chotte Kapde’ of a woman being questioned and why not ‘Chotti Soch’ of men?
Ever thought about a world without women? It can’t survive. Coz She is the rainbow of this world, spreading colors of love all around! She has the power to Fight Back! Rise up against the atrocities! A woman has the strength to sacrifice. She is not just a lady, she is a Wo(Man)!
Pardon me, if all this while I sounded like a female chauvinist, because I am not! A man in a woman’s life is as important as a woman in his life. A mother needs her son, a sister needs her brother, a wife needs her husband and a daughter needs her father.  Women respect men. They know that all men aren’t rapists. All men aren’t the same. Women like their company. Women loved to be loved! But the point is that women are ‘Independent’ enough to stand on their own feet but they are not ‘Free’ enough to roam in their own country.  Our fight isn’t for Independence but for “Freedom”.
Cheers to Woman Power!  Cheers for the male in a Fe(male), a man in a Wo(man)!